Inside your restless soul , your heart is dying....
Girls...Simple yet complicated. With due respect to all my female
friends , but i haven't quite understood a girl's mind. You can never
know what's going on in their mind. In my entire life , i've had some
really really good female friends , but i've even had my worst fights
with them! But somewhere down the line i've got this sympathy for
girls . This sympathy is not because of their helplessness due to
something but because of what they go through their entire life.
So we may be living in this so called modern times. But in my view ,
times haven't changed at all. Somewhere , in some middle class home ,
'She' is always 'told' , how to live her life. Sometimes her decisions
to do something , becomes a hot discussion topic at the dinner table.
And after telling her what she is 'supposed to' do . They all sleep in
peace . While 'she' screams in silence...
So why is the modern indian women always made to wear heavy chains to
limit her freedom. Why do we do it? Is because we're still stuck in
our cultural bondages?
I think its the 'mentality' of people . It can't be changed , as its
been the same during our ancestors and people have re-enforced it by
following it again and again.
What's the result ?
She's always too scared to ask if she could join her friends for an
evening show. She always tries to sacrifice her priorities for others
. Because not only she gets a negative response , but also another
line read from a book called 'How you're 'SUPPOSED' to live your life'
.
I don't say that a Girl should not be told of what's right and what's
not. But she should not be taught to sit at home and remain secluded.
Instead she should be taught to face the world and make a stand for
her self !!
I also know that things will hardly change. But i also know that
indian women will come up and make their presence felt in the world
,by their hardwork and dedication in whatever they do.
'Its a man's world' they say. But i beg to differ!! Women are the
cause of our existence! For me they are the most powerful creatures on
the face of this earth! They make sacrifices at all stages of life ,
for their loved ones .
Women have the power to make or break a family.So there you go ,
that's how powerful they are! :-)
So i salute that professional lady , who returns back from the 9 to 5
work shift to take care of her children . And that hardworking mother
who wakes up early in the morning and starts doing her chores till 8pm
(courtesy ekta kapoor.). And that only daughter of her parents , who
prefers takin them out for a movie than going out with a friend of
hers. And even that little angel who takes the broom and starts
cleaning the house when she sees her mom doing the same.
I salute you people. I salute that caring , sacrificing and loving
'women' in you!
